Misalignment of core values in your relationship or marriage is the beginning of your own hell right here on earth.

Being the Right Person is Far more Important than Finding the Right Person.

Posted by: Nicky Verd Comments: 54

Don’t date just to escape the “Im Single” status. Don’t marry just to tick off a checklist. Life is NOT a grocery list. Find yourself first, then find someone who can accommodate the talents, the vision and the ambitions in your heart, someone who can be the enabler for you to emerge into your greatness. Find someone who believes in you, supports and encourages you even when the world laughs at your guts.

But first, find yourself because it is far more important to be the right person than it is to date/marry the right person. Become a person of value. Don’t go looking for a good woman till you’ve become a good man. And ladies, don’t go looking for a good man till you’ve become a good woman. If you want a loving, honest, supportive and rich partner; first become what you are looking. You must meet the requirements of your own requirements!

Leaders, vision bearers and dream chasers look for character, commitment, vision, grit, faith, etc…but ordinary people look for coca-cola bottle shape kinder girl, a six pack kinder guy and a heavy bank balance…but dear men, its her character that will raise your children not her beauty. It is character that makes a great wife. Dear ladies, It is character that makes a great Dad/husband not a car or a big wallet.

Take note good people, you don’t need to die to go to hell…misalignment of core values/purpose In your relationship/marriage is the beginning of your own hell right here on earth. In my humble opinion, misalignment of core values is worst than cheating. Yes, both are evil but cheating is a lesser evil compared to misalignment of core values. Trust me, you don’t want to test this theory, you may not come out alive. Misalignment of “Core Values” causes havoc and creates major disruption in relationships and marriages. The type of man/woman you are attracted to says alot about who you are.

So, leave the girl/boy down the road to a boy/girl down the road. Leave slay queens to slay kings. Leave party queens to party kings. Leave nyaope boys to nyaope girls, leave weed girls to weed boys, playboys to playgirls….AND legacy builders to legacy builders!. A legacy builder ought to find a partner who’s already weird for empowerment, transformation, wealth building, making a difference in the world. etc.
“Two cannot walk unless they agree…..”

Be on the look out for my upcoming Book titled “Disrupt Yourself Or Be Disrupted” where I talk about the impact of technology on employment, the urgency to upskill yourself and how you can position yourself for this shift in paradigm.

I am Nicky Verd
Follow me on Facebook

Comments (54)

  • Lebo

    Shucks Nicky, you hit the nail on the head – misalignment of values causes a lot of havoc. I experienced that in my previous relationship, and that was a key learning for me.

    February 22, 2019 at 9:20 am
    • Nicky Verd

      Thanks for your comment Lebo….I’m glad you learned something. Many people are yet to wake up to this reality.

      February 22, 2019 at 11:34 am
  • free minecraft download

    What’s up to every body, it’s my first pay a quick visit
    of this web site; this website consists of awesome and genuinely
    fine material in favor of readers.

    May 8, 2019 at 4:21 am
  • minecraft free download pc

    Attractive section of content. I just stumbled upon your web site and in accession capital to assert that I acquire actually enjoyed account your blog posts.
    Any way I’ll be subscribing to your feeds and even I achievement you access consistently fast.

    May 8, 2019 at 9:31 am
  • minecraft download pc

    Valuable info. Lucky me I discovered your site by chance, and I’m shocked why this
    accident did not took place in advance! I bookmarked it.

    May 8, 2019 at 9:53 am
  • how to download minecraft free

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts about minecraft download mojang.

    May 8, 2019 at 12:55 pm
  • minecraft download free pc

    Hi there friends, its wonderful paragraph
    regarding cultureand fully defined, keep it up all
    the time.

    May 8, 2019 at 1:15 pm
  • minecraft pc download

    Paragraph writing is also a excitement, if you be familiar with then you can write otherwise it is complex to write.

    May 8, 2019 at 1:47 pm
  • mojang minecraft download

    Hi there! I just wanted to ask if you ever have any
    trouble with hackers? My last blog (wordpress) was hacked
    and I ended up losing several weeks of hard work due to no back up.
    Do you have any methods to stop hackers?

    May 8, 2019 at 2:13 pm
  • download minecraft for free

    Wonderful goods from you, man. I have understand your stuff previous to
    and you’re just extremely wonderful. I actually like what you have acquired here, really like
    what you are stating and the way in which you say it.
    You make it enjoyable and you still care for to keep it wise.

    I cant wait to read far more from you. This is actually a wonderful website.

    May 8, 2019 at 2:19 pm
  • download minecraft pc

    Hello there, I found your blog by means of Google whilst searching for a comparable subject, your site got here up, it looks
    great. I have bookmarked it in my google bookmarks.

    Hello there, just turned into aware of your weblog through Google,
    and located that it’s really informative. I am going to watch
    out for brussels. I’ll be grateful if you happen to proceed
    this in future. Many folks will likely be benefited out of your writing.

    May 8, 2019 at 2:25 pm
  • minecraft download free pc

    Wow, that’s what I was looking for, what a information! existing here at this blog,
    thanks admin of this website.

    May 8, 2019 at 7:04 pm
  • minecraft free download pc

    Attractive section of content. I just stumbled upon your blog and in accession capital to assert that I acquire
    in fact enjoyed account your blog posts. Any way I’ll be subscribing to your augment and even I
    achievement you access consistently quickly.

    May 8, 2019 at 9:05 pm
  • free minecraft

    I was wondering if you ever considered changing the structure of your website?
    Its very well written; I love what youve got to say. But maybe
    you could a little more in the way of content so people could
    connect with it better. Youve got an awful lot of text for
    only having 1 or two pictures. Maybe you could space it out better?

    May 9, 2019 at 12:17 am
  • how to download minecraft

    I was curious if you ever considered changing the layout of your website?

    Its very well written; I love what youve got
    to say. But maybe you could a little more in the way of content so people could connect with it better.
    Youve got an awful lot of text for only having one or two pictures.

    Maybe you could space it out better?

    May 9, 2019 at 1:28 am
  • minecraft download

    I love it when folks come together and share ideas. Great blog, continue the good work!

    May 9, 2019 at 3:23 am
  • minecraft pc download

    There’s certainly a lot to find out about this topic.
    I love all of the points you made.

    May 9, 2019 at 4:49 am
  • download minecraft free

    whoah this blog is great i really like studying
    your articles. Stay up the great work! You recognize, a lot of people are hunting around for this information, you can aid them greatly.

    May 9, 2019 at 6:15 am
  • minecraft free download

    Excellent, what a weblog it is! This website
    provides valuable data to us, keep it up.

    May 9, 2019 at 6:56 am
  • minecraft for free

    When I originally left a comment I seem to have clicked the -Notify me when new comments are added- checkbox and from now on every time a comment is added I receive 4 emails with the exact same comment.
    There has to be a way you can remove me from that
    service? Thank you!

    May 9, 2019 at 7:03 am
  • minecraft download mojang

    This paragraph presents clear idea for the new visitors of blogging, that actually how to do running a

    May 9, 2019 at 1:04 pm
  • minecraft download free

    You really make it seem so easy along with your presentation however I to find this topic to be actually one thing which I feel I might never understand.

    It sort of feels too complex and very broad for me. I am having a look ahead on your subsequent publish, I will
    attempt to get the grasp of it!

    May 9, 2019 at 11:14 pm
  • minecraft download free pc

    I pay a quick visit everyday a few blogs and information sites to read articles, however
    this website gives feature based writing.

    May 10, 2019 at 12:05 am
  • mojang minecraft download

    This website certainly has all the info I wanted about this subject and didn’t know who to ask.

    May 10, 2019 at 4:34 am
  • g

    You made some decent points there. I checked on the internet for more information about the issue and found most people will go along with your views
    on this site.

    May 10, 2019 at 8:59 pm
  • g

    Hi there to all, the contents existing at this
    website are genuinely remarkable for people knowledge, well, keep up the good work fellows.

    May 10, 2019 at 11:05 pm
  • g

    hey there and thank you for your info – I have certainly picked up something new from right here.
    I did however expertise a few technical issues using this website, as
    I experienced to reload the web site lots of times previous to I could get it
    to load properly. I had been wondering if your web hosting
    is OK? Not that I’m complaining, but sluggish loading instances times will often affect your
    placement in google and can damage your high quality score if
    ads and marketing with Adwords. Anyway I’m adding this RSS to my email
    and can look out for a lot more of your respective interesting content.

    Make sure you update this again soon.

    May 11, 2019 at 8:04 am
  • g

    Hello! I’m at work browsing your blog from my new iphone
    4! Just wanted to say I love reading through your blog and look forward to all your posts!
    Keep up the great work!

    May 11, 2019 at 4:07 pm
  • g

    Wow, this piece of writing is nice, my sister is analyzing these kinds of things,
    thus I am going to tell her.

    May 12, 2019 at 12:43 am
  • g

    WOW just what I was looking for. Came here by searching for g

    May 12, 2019 at 3:33 am
  • g

    Thanks for your marvelous posting! I seriously enjoyed reading it, you may be a great author.
    I will make certain to bookmark your blog and may come back at some point.
    I want to encourage you to definitely continue your great writing, have a nice morning!

    May 12, 2019 at 4:28 am
  • how to download minecraft

    Hi there! I know this is kinda off topic but I was wondering which blog
    platform are you using for this website? I’m getting sick
    and tired of WordPress because I’ve had problems with
    hackers and I’m looking at alternatives for another
    platform. I would be awesome if you could point me in the direction of a good platform.

    May 12, 2019 at 5:59 am
  • minecraft download free

    Hi, i think that i saw you visited my blog thus i came to “return the favor”.I am trying to find things
    to improve my site!I suppose its ok to use some of your ideas!!

    May 14, 2019 at 4:04 pm
  • minecraft download pc

    I have read so many articles concerning the
    blogger lovers however this piece of writing
    is really a good piece of writing, keep it up.

    May 14, 2019 at 8:26 pm
  • minecraft download

    Very great post. I just stumbled upon your weblog and wanted to mention that I have truly loved surfing
    around your weblog posts. In any case I’ll be subscribing
    for your rss feed and I hope you write again soon!

    May 14, 2019 at 8:33 pm
  • minecraft free download pc

    Thank you for the auspicious writeup. It in fact was a amusement account it.
    Look advanced to more added agreeable from you! By the way, how can we communicate?

    May 14, 2019 at 8:59 pm
  • minecraft pc download

    These are really wonderful ideas in about blogging. You have
    touched some good points here. Any way keep up

    May 14, 2019 at 10:48 pm
  • minecraft pc download

    Hello! I could have sworn I’ve been to this website
    before but after reading through some of the post I realized it’s new to me.
    Anyhow, I’m definitely glad I found it and I’ll be bookmarking and checking back

    May 15, 2019 at 2:44 am
  • download minecraft free

    Wow that was strange. I just wrote an very long comment but after I clicked submit my comment didn’t show up.
    Grrrr… well I’m not writing all that over again. Regardless, just wanted to say excellent blog!

    May 15, 2019 at 4:47 am
  • minecraft free download pc

    you’re truly a just right webmaster. The web site loading pace is incredible.

    It sort of feels that you are doing any distinctive trick.

    Moreover, The contents are masterwork. you’ve done a
    magnificent activity on this subject!

    May 15, 2019 at 6:03 am
  • minecraft free

    Undeniably imagine that that you stated. Your favorite reason appeared to be on the net the simplest thing to keep in mind of.

    I say to you, I certainly get irked at the same time as people think about issues
    that they plainly do not understand about. You controlled
    to hit the nail upon the top and also outlined out the entire thing with no need
    side-effects , people can take a signal. Will probably be again to get more.
    Thank you

    May 15, 2019 at 9:27 am
  • minecraft download free

    Hi there i am kavin, its my first time to commenting anyplace, when i read this piece
    of writing i thought i could also create comment due to this good paragraph.

    May 15, 2019 at 9:53 am
  • minecraft download free

    Howdy would you mind stating which blog platform you’re using?
    I’m looking to start my own blog in the near future but I’m having a difficult time deciding between BlogEngine/Wordpress/B2evolution and Drupal.
    The reason I ask is because your design seems different then most blogs and I’m looking for
    something completely unique. P.S My apologies for getting off-topic but I had to ask!

    May 15, 2019 at 10:31 am
  • minecraft download free pc

    I’m truly enjoying the design and layout of your website.

    It’s a very easy on the eyes which makes it much more enjoyable for me to come here and visit more
    often. Did you hire out a designer to create your theme?

    Excellent work!

    May 15, 2019 at 10:54 am
  • download minecraft free

    Greetings from California! I’m bored to tears at work so I decided to check out your blog on my iphone during lunch break.

    I enjoy the info you present here and can’t
    wait to take a look when I get home. I’m shocked at how fast your blog
    loaded on my mobile .. I’m not even using WIFI, just 3G ..
    Anyhow, very good site!

    May 15, 2019 at 11:23 am
  • minecraft free

    If you would like to obtain a good deal from this post then you have to apply such techniques
    to your won weblog.

    May 15, 2019 at 3:22 pm
  • minecraft free download pc

    I am in fact thankful to the holder of this website who has shared this great piece of writing at here.

    May 15, 2019 at 8:56 pm
  • minecraft free download

    After looking over a number of the articles on your
    site, I really like your technique of blogging.
    I bookmarked it to my bookmark webpage list and will be checking back soon. Please check out
    my website too and tell me your opinion.

    May 15, 2019 at 10:05 pm
  • minecraft download free pc

    Hello to every , since I am genuinely keen of reading this blog’s post to be updated regularly.
    It contains nice stuff.

    May 16, 2019 at 12:41 am
  • how to download minecraft free

    Good day! This is my first visit to your blog! We are a
    collection of volunteers and starting a new project in a community in the same niche.
    Your blog provided us useful information to work on. You have
    done a wonderful job!

    May 16, 2019 at 12:56 am
  • mojang minecraft download

    Hey! Someone in my Facebook group shared this site with us so I came to take a look.

    I’m definitely loving the information. I’m bookmarking and will be
    tweeting this to my followers! Terrific
    blog and great design and style.

    May 16, 2019 at 1:08 am
  • minecraft free download

    Hi! I could have sworn I’ve been to this web site before but after
    browsing through some of the articles I realized it’s new to me.

    Regardless, I’m definitely delighted I discovered
    it and I’ll be bookmarking it and checking back frequently!

    May 16, 2019 at 4:11 am
  • how to download minecraft free

    If some one needs expert view on the topic of blogging and site-building then i propose him/her
    to pay a quick visit this webpage, Keep up the nice work.

    May 16, 2019 at 8:00 am
  • free minecraft download

    If some one wishes expert view on the topic of blogging and site-building
    after that i suggest him/her to go to see this blog, Keep up the fastidious work.

    May 16, 2019 at 10:58 am

Comments are closed.