Don’t Build Another Wall. Crying isn’t Happy!

    You have been hurt and you have built up a wall – a wall equivalent to The Great Wall of China. Inside these walls, you have made yourself comfortable – so you think. You have built this wall as a safety measure – so you think and you have created a world limited to your experiences.   I know you’ve been hurt… I know you’ve been betrayed, disappointed, taken advantage of but don’t build another wall. Never ever! Because the same wall you’re building to keep pain/sadness out also keeps joy out. The same wall keeping the bad guys out will also keep the good ones out. The… Read More

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I Don’t Like Selling!

I DON”T like selling…. Business is NOT really my thing… I am NOT an entrepreneur/hustler… etc… These and much more are excuses some people give for not trying to make something of themselves in a difficult economy. But here’s the irony, if entrepreneurial abilities, advanced selling skills and creativity were listed as a necessary requirement in a “job advert”, the same people will rushed in their numbers to apply for it.  The truth of the matter is … anybody can train themselves to be whatever they want to be….but most people are just too terrified of standing on their own two feet. They’ll will rather play it safe in a… Read More

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A Woman’s Place Is In Her Brain.

A woman’s place is in her brain – she decides her future. Even though our world is still jam-packed with stereotype men chanting a woman’s place is in the kitchen, so much such that a girl child is encouraged to choose career options that are considered “feminine” — like nursing instead of engineering. In a typical African culture, girls are raised with more emphases on being a good wife and a good mother. They are raise with the mindset to look for a successful man instead of being successful themselves.   By this when a girl reaches womanhood, they are far more prone to doubt themselves and their abilities. They… Read More

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15 Bizarre Facts Every Man Must Know About Women. Ignore At Your Own Peril.

Dear men, women were made to be loved NOT understood.    Women are stunning, graceful and majestic creatures. But we also do really bizarre stuff. The list below will shock you, make you laugh and most important keep you from going insane trying to understand women.     We shave off our eye brows then we draw them back. We cut our hair then we wear wigs. If we had a mustache we’d likely going to shave it too then draw it back again. We wear a mini shirt then we keep pulling on it all day to make it longer. We tell you we are fine when in actual… Read More

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Don’t Wait For A Text That Will Never Come. Say NO To One-sided Relationships

Don’t ruin your New Year waiting for a text that will never come! Stop fighting to keep someone in your life who doesn’t want to be kept. If someone don’t make an effort to be in your life, don’t try so hard to be in theirs. A one-sided relationship/friendship is a long, painful, heartbreaking road. You are doing all the work. You are always the bigger person. You are always the first to reach out. You are always the fixer. You are always the one to make peace and apologize even for things you didn’t do. In fact, they wouldn’t even be a “relationship” if not for you. He/she knows… Read More

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Invest in Your Mind. 100 Top Best Personal Development Books To Read

  I’m often asked which books are most transformational for people who want to follow their dreams, change the world, lead fantastic lives and be amazing. So, I made it a point to dig deeper into the best books to read, the effects of reading and why it is important.  “Books are the quietest and most constant of friends; they are the most accessible and wisest of counsellors, and the most patient of teachers.” Charles William Eliot Bill Gates reads about 50 books a year! One habit successful people have in common is that they read, a lot. This might be an inconvenient truth for some people but many of… Read More

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15 Tips On How To Make 2018 Your Best Year Yet. Number 5 & 7 are my Favorites

      The beginning of the year is always special and pregnant with possibilities. Every year has the potential to be your best year yet if approached correctly from the start. As we enter what I hope will be the single best year of your life and mine yet, I want to leave you with some tips on how we can make this year amazing.  Take advantage of your New Year motivation and take a moment to get in the proper mindset. Studies have shown that fewer than 20 percent of New Year’s resolutions are followed through, and then for only a limited time. But that moment of optimism is valuable,… Read More

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9 Simple Tips, Tricks And Adjustments You Can Make To Improve Your Confidence No Matter What – The Code Of Self-Confidence.

What you think of yourself is more important than what other people think of you. Before moving on, let’s first define self-confidence. What is self-confidence, really? Do you ever wonder what it is about some people that makes them so completely comfortable in their skin and radiating such positive, captivating energy? I used to wonder this too. And then I learned that confidence really comes down to one very simple thing – accepting who you are. This means that you are totally and completely at peace with who you really are in every moment, interaction and experience. You make no apologies for being awkward, nervous, weird, excited, smart, loud, soft… Read More

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Poverty Mindset Keeps Many People Poor

I was having a conversation with someone recently and in the course of our discussion I happened to mention a video of Bill Gate’s interview I’d watched on youtube. I was immediately shocked by his reaction and responds when he heard me mentioned Bill Gate’s name. With a disgusted look on his face he said “better stay away from listening to such people, their wealth is not normal. They’ll contaminate you” In absolute amazement, I inquired further, “what do you mean”? He went further to explain how those rich people are satanists and illuminati and all the devilish sort of things. Did I mentioned that we were actually having a… Read More

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Facebook is to expand its UK workforce by almost 50% in 2018, hiring 800 new staff in London alone. That’s the power of one man’s dream!

  Facebook will expand its presence in the UK by 50%, making London Facebook’s largest engineering hub outside the US. The new hires – predominately in engineering roles are to be recruited over the next year – bringing the total number of staff working for Facebook in the UK to 2,300. The US technology giant announced on Monday it will also offer space in its new office to UK based startups as part of an accelerator program.  According to BusinessTech and Fin24, Facebook’s expansion comes at a time when Britain is so alarmed by the extent and scale of Russian interference in UK politics via social media networks that its… Read More

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