Only You Can Fight For The Life You’ve Imagined For Yourself. Nothing In This World Is Handed To You

We live in a world where nothing is just handed to anyone. The only way to get what you want is to fight for it. Stand your ground and fight for your dreams, fight for your children, fight for the person you love, fight for your business, fight for the things that are important to you. Only you can fight for the life you’ve imagined for yourself. So, put massive amounts of energy into what you want. Do not let anyone hold you back or put you in a corner. Everything is going to be alright, eventually. “If you didn’t fight for what you want, don’t cry for what you’ve… Read More

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5 Strategies To Take Ownership Of Your Life. Your Future Is Immediate And It Begins Today!

  It is a worthy cause to dream of a better future. But take note the future is not some far-far away land. The future starts now, the future is immediate and what you choose to do now right now is what can make all the difference to your future. Don’t stand on yourway to the success you dream of. “You cannot escape the responsibility of tomorrow by evading it today”. Abraham Lincoln “The best way to predict the future is to create it”. Peter Drucker Begin Today. Create a better future by creating a new you. You don’t have to dwell in a pit of despair, moaning over squandered… Read More

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Be The Light In Someone’s Darkness. Share Your Story.

  I am dedicating the month of March to sharing African success stories on this blog. Narrating your life story is a powerful and courageous act. It empowers you and it empowers others. Your story will be one of many that celebrate personal, communal, pioneering or innovative accomplishments of African people.    Are you a walking testimony? Are you a pioneer? Are you an innovator? Have you been though the pipeline of adversity yet came out strong? Are you a start-up? Are you a die-hard hustler/entrepreneur? What keeps you going? It’s time to TELL SOMEONE ABOUT IT. Let others be empowered by your grit and success journey. Your story can… Read More

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5 Simple Ways To Protect Your Mind Against Dangerous Thoughts That Can Sabotage Your Success

  The Law of Attraction states that what you attract in your life is determined by what you think. This law can also work against you if what you constantly think about is negative. Negative thinking holds you captive, limits your potential and deprives you of the success you deserve. “Your mind is a garden, your thoughts are the seeds. You can grow flowers or you can grow weeds”  Grass/weed don’t need any encouragement to grow. You don’t necessarily need to water it or fertilize it. You’ll find grass blossoming even in abandoned farms/gardens and even through crack walls. Crops/flowers on the other hand need all the care, the pruning,… Read More

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Don’t Let Social Media Fool You – Everyone Is Going Through Something

  Social media is powerful. It is an undeniable force in today’s world. One single post can launch a worldwide movement.  Social media allows you to connect with other like-minded individuals from all over the world. You can learn from others, see how others are doing, be inspired by others and share your own stories. But social media does have its shortcomings, and one of those is it can often seem like everybody is living large/winning big – except you.  Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, you name it — we all know them and we see them all throughout our day. You are constantly bombarded with images of people you don’t even… Read More

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Meet Lucas, the Jerk

Lucas is MEAN Lucas is VICIOUS Lucas doesn’t need any encouragement to be angry, his wrath shoots through the roof at the slightest provocation. Lucas goes into a rage when his internet is slow.   Lucas is respected by friends and family but at home, Lucas is the Mike Tyson and Mayweather of the house. His boxing matches are solely organize by him. Even though she shares happy pictures of her and Lucas on social media, she lives in absolute terror. Lucas is abusive in every sense of the word, he calls her all sorts of names imaginable. She has lost herself, her dignity and self-esteem. The only time Lucas… Read More

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Best Hand Made Necklaces – The Hottest Beads Jewelry Trends In South Africa.

There has been many fashion jewelry trends, but none as prominent at the Pandora Chic necklace. The necklace is designed to go everywhere with every piece to punctuate style and outfit alike.   This is the sexiest necklace you’ll see this summer….will you like to own it?   As seasons continue to change, and we start to switch out our closets, celebrities and It-girls alike are turning to jewelry choices that are way more bold, distinct, and personal. These range from pendant necklaces to layer, beaded body jewelry, charms, gold bands of all sizes and statement masterpiece Jewelries that tell a story. Jewelry is a girl’s best friend. Wearing different… Read More

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Don’t Build Another Wall. Crying isn’t Happy!

    You have been hurt and you have built up a wall – a wall equivalent to The Great Wall of China. Inside these walls, you have made yourself comfortable – so you think. You have built this wall as a safety measure – so you think and you have created a world limited to your experiences.   I know you’ve been hurt… I know you’ve been betrayed, disappointed, taken advantage of but don’t build another wall. Never ever! Because the same wall you’re building to keep pain/sadness out also keeps joy out. The same wall keeping the bad guys out will also keep the good ones out. The… Read More

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I Don’t Like Selling!

I DON”T like selling…. Business is NOT really my thing… I am NOT an entrepreneur/hustler… etc… These and much more are excuses some people give for not trying to make something of themselves in a difficult economy. But here’s the irony, if entrepreneurial abilities, advanced selling skills and creativity were listed as a necessary requirement in a “job advert”, the same people will rushed in their numbers to apply for it.  The truth of the matter is … anybody can train themselves to be whatever they want to be….but most people are just too terrified of standing on their own two feet. They’ll will rather play it safe in a… Read More

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A Woman’s Place Is In Her Brain.

A woman’s place is in her brain – she decides her future. Even though our world is still jam-packed with stereotype men chanting a woman’s place is in the kitchen, so much such that a girl child is encouraged to choose career options that are considered “feminine” — like nursing instead of engineering. In a typical African culture, girls are raised with more emphases on being a good wife and a good mother. They are raise with the mindset to look for a successful man instead of being successful themselves.   By this when a girl reaches womanhood, they are far more prone to doubt themselves and their abilities. They… Read More

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