During casual sexual encounters, most people generally think that both parties walk away from the situation unaffected. Other people think STD’s and unwanted pregnancies are the only things to worry about. Well, think again!

There’s a lot of ramifications that come with sexual liberation stuff that people are constantly talking about but no one talks about the dark side of it all.

A condom will protect you from most sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) but will not protect you from sexually transmitted demons.

A new holistic school of thought believes that an unintentional energy exchange happens during sex regardless of your chemistry and emotional connectedness to the person you’re having sex with.

It is also believed that the more sexual partners you have the more depressed and dysfunctional you are likely to be and there’s actual science to back this up:

According to Report by NICS Well UK, Researchers found that “Having casual sex was associated with lower levels of psychological wellbeing and higher levels of anxiety and depression in both men and women”

The dangers of multiple sexual partners and promiscuity among men and women.

The hookup culture, the one-night-stands, the friends with benefits etc, might be “trendy” and acceptable by society but it leaves a trail of destruction on its path! It’s definitely not “harmless fun” as many are claiming!

Sexual activity has been found to stimulate the release of oxytocin, which subconsciously allows you to bond with your sexual partner. This is why it is possible to feel a sense of attachment after having sex with someone you weren’t really that interested in.

Be mindful of who you have sex with. The energy transferred through sexual intercourse creates a strong bond and intertwines two people’s energies. Separation can be a traumatic experience due to the imprints of the other person’s energy still lingering in your aura.

Sex is a highly intimate act. It’s an exchange of energies. Catching an STD, catching feelings, or catching a baby should be the least of your worries!

The Sexual Freedom of our Time is Not Free!

When you are sexually intimate with someone who is broken on the inside(depress/suicidal) — their brokenness, depression, traumas, dysfunctions and demons also latches on you. No condom can protect you from that! Man or woman, no condom will protect you from soul ties and trauma bonding.

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There is more to Sex than Fun and pleasure!

Sex in its nature was created as a tool to bind two souls(people) together, it goes without saying that the act of sex is more spiritual than it is physical.

Sex is a spiritual bond (soul tie). Every person you sleep with leaves a part of themselves with you!

Things don’t end when the physical act is complete. And your binding ability gets compromised every time you get sexually involved with someone. This is especially true for women — will discuss why in the next section.

When the cuming has come and y’all feel great about reaching the place of climax together. However, when the physical act is happening there is a transference of energies that’s happening too. There is a part of you that gets taken away in the act.

It’s not surprising that you may start feeling drained, demotivated, anxious and depressed after you encounter certain people. And in some cases, this doesn’t even have to be a sexual encounter. Some people just have bad energy and you have to protect yourself from that.

Think of the high levels of intense uncontrollable releases and earth-shaking climaxes that can be felt in the body during sex. It’s obvious that each person is ‘depositing’ their energies into the other. This is where “the two really become one” as the holy book says — bonding!

Sexually transmitted demons are not something to play with and are harder to get rid of than sexually transmitted diseases!

As you continue in this lifestyle, at some point, you’d realize that you can’t seem to make relationships work. And it’s not because you don’t have the right philosophical or psychological approach to love but simply because you are tied to many souls.

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Could it be that your inability to make relationships work has nothing to do with bad luck but has everything to do with people you are joined to spiritually because of casual sex?

Could it be that most marriages don’t last, not because they were not meant to be but because the ability to bind the two individuals through sex was compromised even before the “love birds” said I DO?

We are taught how to protect ourselves from unwanted pregnancies and Sexuallity Transmited Diseases (STD’s) but no one is teaching us how to protect our hearts, our souls, and our mental health from unwanted spirits and energies.

We sabotage future relationships when we engage in relationships that we know very well are not going anywhere.

Don’t get me wrong, Sex is a wonderful experience. I love sex, believe me, I do. Sex is sacred and a pleasure palace. However, the implications of it are too great if the one you are doing it with is not the one.

I’m passionate 24–7. Sexuality is a mindset, not something you do with random strangers. To have a sex-cessful life doesn’t mean sleeping with a whole bunch of people.

Sexual confidence doesn’t come from being hyper-sexual but from feeling comfortable in your own body and in your own values. Sexual confidence isn’t something you need anyone or many sexual partners to give to you or validate in you.

Sex is intrinsically biased against women.

Today’s culture encourages women to sleep with whomever they want, whenever they want and however many men they want. And then you end up broken and bitter because you was fighting the patriarchy.

Just because the trend is popular doesn’t mean it’s personally profitable.

Men mostly have sex for no other reason than it’s available, pleasurable and fun but for women, this is an entirely different story. Women easily attach after sex while men just move on.

This is one of the main reasons far too many women end up emotionally traumatized after casual sexual encounters. Women are biochemically different, hence, we pair-bond differently than Men! It’s nature!

No matter what the feminist movement says, no matter how strong and independent a woman is, this biological difference between men and women cannot be denied or erased.

Whenever a woman is sexually intimate with a man, she releases chemicals that make her attached to that man. No amount of women’s empowerment can outweigh this basic biology.

When it comes to uncommitted sex, women are playing a game they can’t win. Men and women are wired biologically different, and when women try to override this natural makeup, they end up broken, depressed, angry, bitter, or feel they have been deceived by men.

This isn’t to say men are free from the consequences of multiple sexual partners. No! Whether you’re a man or a woman, it’s not a good look to be out here just sleeping around with a whole bunch of people. Are we animals or humans? Where’s our self-respect?

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We now live in an era where women are more sexually liberated than ever before. However, the prize of sexual liberation is heavy for women! Women suffer more when they follow societal expectations rather than leaning into their biological makeup.

Sex is an invasive experience for women and too many sexual partners affect a woman’s ability to pair-bond and have a healthy long term relationship.

Nowadays, women have everything we were told we ever wanted. We have more freedom in our lives than our great grandmothers, more money, more mobility, more sexual liberation, etc.

Yet, we’re also more unmarried, more single and uncovered, and more unhappy than our great grandmothers whom we were told were oppressed. Well, I digress…

Are you protecting your gadgets more than your soul?

Whether you are a man or a woman, would you give a random stranger or even your colleagues at work the password to your phone? I can accurately predict your answer to be “Hell NO!”

Yet many people give the password to their bodies to complete strangers on the 1st date, 1st week, 1st month, in random nightclubs, etc.

The negative transfers of energies during sex can show up in the form of anxiety, depression and other mental conditions.

Are you protecting your phone more than your soul?

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And to religious folks…

Sometimes the church and other religions are superficial about these things. People are only told it’s a “sin” to have sex outside of marriage — which is rightfully so!

But there are more consequences to casual random sex than just sin. During the physical act of sex, there is a transference of spirit that happens, there is a part of you that gets taken away in the act.

Soul ties are real and more powerful than you think. The right partner for you will PRAY on your soul not PREY on it.

Sexual Abstinence

We live in a world where a lot of people laugh at sexual purity. People who practice abstinence are given weird labels while sexually liberated folks are celebrated.

But by maintaining sexual abstinence, you avoid emotional entanglements that may negatively affect your future relationships and marriage.

Beware, sexually liberated folks will convince themselves that something is seriously wrong with you if you choose to practice any type of sexual discipline. However, it’s better to live life on your own terms than to follow social trends.

On the bright side, if two partners who engage in sex are happy and well balanced mentally, emotionally and spiritually, then a good “energy exchange” occurs.

And you can’t know if someone is well balanced unless you invest time in really getting to know them.

Well, to each their own!

You are free to do whatever you want but keep in mind you ain’t free from the consequences of your choices!




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